I’ve had premature ejaculation for a long time.
I would like you to tell me if there’s a solution for this. If so, please tell me what it is. I’ve been to urologists, and they always tell me it’s an emotional problem.
I don’t believe it is, for I have a normal erection. I just ejaculate too fast. Sometimes it’s a matter of seconds, not even reaching a minute. Even when I’m driving, I have to be careful not to ejaculate.
Please doctor. I’m counting on you. Tell me what I can do.
Thank you in advance.
Dilso
26/12/2002
Answer
Hi!
You said: "I’ve been to urologists, and they always tell me it’s an emotional problem."
You don’t believe what these doctors say. Why don’t you trust your doctors? Or maybe you don’t know one that you can trust.
By the way you speak, it’s like you know more than them.
It would be interesting to ask how these doctors are benefiting by not telling you the truth; are all of them incompetent?
Maybe you’re frightened by emotional problems. In order to have a premature ejaculation, you need to first have an erection. If it doesn’t maintain itself for more than a few seconds – not reaching a minute – and you ejaculate, it is premature ejaculation. Premature means: before maturity, before time.
If there are no organic problems that justify your symptom, this is a proof that it has emotional origin, which doesn’t mean that it cannot make use of some medication. Some anti-depressives slow down the orgasm. On men it can maintain the erection for a longer period.
When you’re driving, do you have an erection for any reason, or is it involuntary? What can I do to help?
It’s no demerit to have emotional problems. The impression I have is that you prefer to keep this problem instead of looking for a psychologist or a psychiatrist to treat you.
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