I met (here) – by his insistence – a man with whom I have fallen in love and says that he feels the same way. After I said that, he told me he lives with someone else. I don’t know what I should do, because I will never accept being any man’s lover.
On the other hand, he said he has a stable relationship and is afraid of leaving her to live with me. I told him initially that I will not accept that he keeps the both of us, and asked him to make a decision, but it hasn’t been easy. I’m afraid of being with him for a longer period, and then being unable to revert the situation.
I think that I should not give him this chance. What do you think?
26/12/2002
Answer
“To me, the most important is sincerity from the very start, not only for dating, but also for friendship. Another factor of extreme importance: NOT BEING MARRIED, ENGAGED, IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE, CONCUBINE, PARTNER, ETC with anybody, or somebody’s. One more thing – don’t look for me if everything you search in a woman is her beauty.”
Hi!
The text above is in your profile. I wonder if this man attempted to defy you, who were apparently so decided? For which motive did he choose you, without respecting any of the recommendations you make?
If you had in fact shaken this man’s heart and he was unhappy with his partner, he would fight for you, or leave some space for you to fight for him.
If he met you after reading your profile (with the text above), I suggest that you lead your life, and leave him to lead his stable life. People who are afraid of taking risks should be left in peace, so they can go about their day.
I suggest that you try to leave this relationship.
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